Tell us where and what
Your state and the one thing on your mind today: money, kids, a person, a pattern, or filing.
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Take a breath. Then take the next clear step.
You do not need a law degree, just a starting point. Answer three short questions and we will point you to the right tool for your situation.
Takes about 2 minutes · no account needed
✓ Free to start ✓ Works on any device ✓ Math stays in your browser ✓ All 50 states covered
How it works
Three steps to a clearer next move
Answer plain questions
Built for normal people, not legal insiders. No jargon, no maze of forms to figure out first.
See what to check next
Get useful context and better questions for your attorney, mediator, hearing, or next decision.
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Transparency Check
Look up an attorney, judge, mediator, or financial professional using public information.
Child Support
State-specific child support calculators using your state's official guidelines.
Alimony Estimator
Understand spousal-support factors and rules for your state.
High-Conflict Patterns
Turn confusing behavior into clearer patterns and questions to verify.
A note from Carlos
I built this for the moments I wish I had more help.
I have been through this process more than once. I remember how hard it was to find plain answers, know which questions mattered, and figure out who could actually help before everything felt urgent.
SelfHelpDivorce.com is my way of making the first step easier for people in that same place. The tools are free for users. You can use them privately, learn what to ask, and move at your own pace.
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